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I can understand why, at first glance, seeing a Dominant referred to as "Daddy" or "Mommy" and a submissive referred to as "little girl" — or baby girl," "boy," "boi," or a variant along those lines — could appear, well, creepy.
However, as the DDlg quotes below show, these cute relationships are typically quite healthy and loving. A Daddy Dom is a dominant partner typically male, but not always who cares for, nurtures, and assumes responsibility for their submissive, typically referred to as their little or baby girl.
Talk about freaky relationship goals. Daddy Doms may serve as a paternal figure, but that should not be mistaken to mean the people involved in DDlg relationships are in any way involved or approving of incest or pedophilia.
This dynamic is generally thought of by many in the Vanilla non-kinky community less as a relationship and more as an abusive arrangement between a violator and a victim. There are, of course, exceptions to every rule, and abusive relationships, unfortunately, exist within the BDSM community as they do everywhere else.
But there are many types of Dominants and submissives, and most are perfectly healthy, high-functioning people involved in perfectly healthy, high-functioning relationships. And while some of these relationships are sadomasochistic hence the SM at the end of BDSMthat is only one end of the kinky spectrum. On the other end, you have Daddy doms and their baby girls.
Picture all of the best parts of what an ideal Daddy provides: warmth, strength, measured humor, discipline as needed, undivided attention, nurturing, caregiving, stability, support, and unconditional love. Now picture the best parts of what the best baby girl provides: laughter, joy, silliness, fun, playfulness, warmth, affection beyond belief, beauty, awe, excitement, mental and physical challenges, and unconditional love.
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15 DDLG Quotes That Explain Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships